Private Places, Public Spaces

We have been carrying out research into how disabled women and non-binary people experience non-consensual touching. Many people came forward with their stories which are archived on this site. We are now looking to update this work by gathering views on how the pandemic might have impacted on this. If you have any thoughts on … Continue reading “Private Places, Public Spaces”

Sam’s Story -‘I’m a non-binary autistic person who is often ‘helped’ by people who mistake my wariness for helplessness’

I’m a non-binary autistic person who is often ‘helped’ by people who mistake my wariness for helplessness, but the worst incidence of non-consensual touching I have experienced happened to someone else. I was marshalling at a graduation ceremony, and asked to provide one to one support to a blind woman, with a guide dog, who … Continue reading “Sam’s Story -‘I’m a non-binary autistic person who is often ‘helped’ by people who mistake my wariness for helplessness’”

AJ’s Story – ‘It made me feel inferior, violated, powerless, scared, knocked my confidence and undermined what I have achieved as a person in spite of my disability’

I am a 26 year- old cis- gender, bi-sexual female and have a form of proportional dwarfism, which has lead me to finish growing at around 4 foot 8(ish). My most prominent experience would be a drunken stranger suddenly picking me up onto his shoulders without my consent at a music festival last year so … Continue reading “AJ’s Story – ‘It made me feel inferior, violated, powerless, scared, knocked my confidence and undermined what I have achieved as a person in spite of my disability’”

Edie’s Story part 2 – ‘Men are far less likely to hassle women who have a man with them’

I’ve been at the point where I mostly need a wheelchair to go out for years, and I can’t self-propel. So I always have my partner pushing my wheelchair, and despite the life-endangering assault by the driver some years ago, I feel a lot safer for that. Men are far less likely to hassle women … Continue reading “Edie’s Story part 2 – ‘Men are far less likely to hassle women who have a man with them’”

Amy’s Story – ‘As a visually impaired woman using a white cane I experience unwanted touching in public every single day.’

As a visually impaired woman using a white cane I experience unwanted touching in public every single day. I have been dragged across roads, pulled out of train carriages and pushed around shops, without being asked if I wanted assistance first. These experiences can be distressing and disorientating, occasionally they cause me physical harm. Whenever … Continue reading “Amy’s Story – ‘As a visually impaired woman using a white cane I experience unwanted touching in public every single day.’”

Sharing Your Story

This project was inspired by the Just Ask, Don’t Grab campaign. Read more about Just Ask, Don’t Grab. Here are some examples of the sorts of stories that you might like to share Bronwyn Berg, a wheelchair user who had a stranger forcibly push her wheelchair without consent. Amy Kavanagh, who is visually impaired and regularly … Continue reading “Sharing Your Story”